help getting your ideas and feelings across to your partner
There is hope for relationships in trouble.
I offer down-to-earth help for couples who are dealing with a variety of issues. Highly confidential, non-judgmental, accessible, affordable (See fee info). Conveniently located in Oklahoma City near NW 59th & May. Call 495-4332 for more information, or request an appointment now.
Q & A
Q: Do you work with unmarried couples in committed relationships?
A: Yes, premarital counseling and counseling for non-married couples is available.
Q: I want to come to counseling but my husband doesn't. Can you still help?
A: Yes, my services can still help. A change in one person affects the entire relationship and family -- kind of a ripple effect.
Q: I just learned that my spouse has had an affair. Is there anything that can be done to salvage our relationship?
A: Yes. I have worked with many couples who have dealt with infidelity. We work to reestablish trust and accountability, to heal the wounds that have been inflicted, and to evaluate and resolve any issues that may have contributed to the rift in the relationship.
Q: How long will this take?
A: That's a question many people have. In my experience, when a couple adopts the attitude that they will do whatever it takes to work through their issues they tend to make progress quickly. I ask couples to participate weekly for the first four weeks or so, then we can reevaluate and agree on a plan for further services. Often people get what they need in a much shorter time than they first anticipated. In any case I will remain a resource for you and you can feel free to consult me down the road if there is a need.
Q: What if the relationship can't be saved?
A: In situations where it's clear to both parties that the relationship is not working it is my goal to help both people move forward in wholeness. Sometimes this means supporting one or both parties through a grieving process for the relationship.
Q: You are an ordained minister?
A: Yes, a healing minister. I do not preach or pastor. I offer a heart-centered healing practice -- non-denominational, non-judgmental and -- by design -- non-toxic.
Q: How much does couples counseling cost?
A: Check the Fees page for complete information about my fees, and learn how to receive a discount on prepaid session packages.
Q: We both have busy schedules and need an evening appointment. How late do you offer sessions?
A: I offer flexible appointments as late as 7:00 p.m. many days of the week. Click below to book an appointment now.